Tuesday, June 1, 2010

I'm No Vicki!!!



For those of you that follow the Housewives of Orange County then you know who I'm referring to. Yet even she manages to have found a husband. Don seems very sweet and good natured, but maybe also a push-over and henpecked. Sweet and good-natured are qualities that I want in a man, but the other two just would not do. I can at times have a very dominant personality and I need someone who can go toe to toe with me if the need arises. I think Vicki comes off as an overbearing bitch at times because Don is so laid back and easy going. There were times when I was yelling at the TV, telling Don to grow a pair and stand-up for himself. It now seems as though Vicki has seen the error of her ways and has made an impressive effort to save her marriage and show her husband the love and respect that he seems to deserve. I'm very proud of her. Now back to me...........................

Why am I still single???

Is it because I have kids?
I don't believe so. I know plenty of women who have children and have still managed to find a man to love them and their kids.

Is it because I don't seem to be the marrying kind?
Now this is a hot topic for me because I was just thinking about the fact that I don't have that damsel in distress quality. Men do not rush to my aid to save me. I've often been called an ice-queen. I just do not seem to possess that tender quality that makes men want to rescue me. I have no problem being affectionate with my man and letting the man take charge. To be quite honest its a relief sometimes. It feels good to let someone else make the decisions for a change sometimes. I have no problem letting a good man steer the boat, but I'm not about to let anybody crash my shit. Ya feel me! lol Just joking but seriously, I will follow your lead as long as I think you know what you're doing. Once I see that you're about to hit a rock either we decide together what the next step should be or move cause I'm about to knock to out the way, grab the wheel and keep my shit afloat!

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